Another Reason Why a CLEAN Bottom is a Top Concern January 21, 2019 – Posted in: How To Top Well

In the language of the Ga people from Ghana, the noun for ‘Love’ doe not exist. If you want to say ‘I love you’, you would say ‘Iñ Smor O Sané’. Translated word for word it says, ‘I like your concerns’. It is short-hand for saying ‘What Concerns you, concerns me. Your burdens are my burdens. I am at your side always to help you bear the load’. So tops, if you love bottoms and love…

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5 Reasons Why a CLEAN Bottom is a Top Concern December 24, 2018 – Posted in: How To Top Well

  This particular post was inspired by two incidents that really bothered me. They made me realised that what I had to say on this matter should be said. Incident 1 I went to dinner with a friend I had known for more than 15 years and his partner. In the course of the evening the conversation made its way to my brand ConfidentU and the work we do here. My friend’s partner was the…

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CLEAN Confidence GO BALM – A Dom Top Makes Amends December 14, 2018 – Posted in: How To Top Well

So you know how we say in our about us page that all of our products rise from a real need to solve a real problem. CLEAN Confidence GO BALM is no exception to this rule. To that effect, the narrative about the inception of this particular product goes as follows: I am a total top, very much attracted to total bottoms. I have what I describe as a ‘Passion for Penetration’. When the chemistry…

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Finding Confidence September 6, 2017 – Posted in: Brand and Product Updates

Finding Confidence - The Man Behind The Idea In September 2014 I was diagnosed with an acute auto-immune disease called Idiopathic Polymyositis. In basic terms, my immune system thought my whole muscular system was a foreign body and so aggressively wanted to get rid of it. Everything that was a muscle in my body was under attack. All of the major muscle groups. My lungs are muscles, my heart is a muscle and they were… Continue reading