How to Kill The Pain and Not The Sensation January 30, 2018 – Posted in: How To Bottom Well

How to kill the pain and not the sensation From many hopeful bottoms, the idea of being fucked into oblivion is an enticing yet painful prospect. As many complain about the pain that can be associated with being sexually penetrated anally. Ideas that some shared as we developed ConfidentU’s products were to create a cream or lotion of some kind, that could be applied to dull the physical discomfort. There are currently products out on… Continue reading

A Different Perspective on Masculinity January 22, 2018 – Posted in: Holistic Well-Being

All men have their own journey when it comes to figuring out what masculinity is, embracing it and interpreting it for themselves as an identity. It is an even more thorny salient issue when it comes to men and homosexuality. Many in exploring their sexuality may have questioned the validity of their masculinity and may have found their own ways of coming to terms with it.  I find this TED talk a great stimulator for… Continue reading

Our Sisters are Dying. What Are We Going to Do About it? January 15, 2018 – Posted in: Collective Well-Being

In 2017 over 28 transgender people were murdered in the US, according to the Human Rights Campaign Report. A disproportionate number of these were transgender women of colour. The report argues that their unique intersection of racism, sexism, homophobia and transphobia conspire to deprive them of employment, housing, healthcare and other necessities, barriers that make them especially vulnerable. In 2016 there were 23 deaths. How do we turn the rising tide? A lot of progress has… Continue reading