In the language of the Ga people from Ghana, the noun for ‘Love’ doe not exist. If you want to say ‘I love you’, you would say ‘Iñ Smor O Sané’. Translated word for word it says, ‘I like your concerns’. It is short-hand for saying ‘What Concerns you, concerns me. Your burdens are my burdens. I am at your side always to help you bear the load’. So tops, if you love bottoms and love…
Continue readingThis particular post was inspired by two incidents that really bothered me. They made me realised that what I had to say on this matter should be said. Incident 1 I went to dinner with a friend I had known for more than 15 years and his partner. In the course of the evening the conversation made its way to my brand ConfidentU and the work we do here. My friend’s partner was the…
Continue readingSo you know how we say in our about us page that all of our products rise from a real need to solve a real problem. CLEAN Confidence GO BALM is no exception to this rule. To that effect, the narrative about the inception of this particular product goes as follows: I am a total top, very much attracted to total bottoms. I have what I describe as a ‘Passion for Penetration’. When the chemistry…
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