Become a ConfidentU Brand Ambassador February 11, 2019 – Posted in: Brand and Product Updates

Here at ConfidentU, we are the essence of Holistic Sexual Well-being. We are committed in ensuring that our products are infused with homeopathic and organic ingredients  that help our customers express and thrive in their sexuality. Even more important, we believe that sexual well-being is a right and should be accessible to all. We actively want to be the trusted go-to brand for this. Thus we endeavour to always bring to market for high quality…

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Bottom: Fearless State of Mind. Fearless State of Body January 21, 2019 – Posted in: How To Bottom Well

We love this track by Holland from South Korea. It speaks to not being afraid to embrace your sexuality and your sexual role openly, wherever, whenever. I am not Afraid – Holland Become Fearless in Mind & Body. Explore your fearless state of mind becoming aligned with a fearless body that expresses the full potential of your sexuality with CLEAN Confidence Bowel Regularity Support.

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Another Reason Why a CLEAN Bottom is a Top Concern – Posted in: How To Top Well

In the language of the Ga people from Ghana, the noun for ‘Love’ doe not exist. If you want to say ‘I love you’, you would say ‘Iñ Smor O Sané’. Translated word for word it says, ‘I like your concerns’. It is short-hand for saying ‘What Concerns you, concerns me. Your burdens are my burdens. I am at your side always to help you bear the load’. So tops, if you love bottoms and love…

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The Situation in Bamako – Let’s Help Our Sisters November 28, 2018 – Posted in: Collective Well-Being

Back in September, a friend went home to Guinea in Africa for a visit. Whilst he was there, he sent me a couple of deeply disturbing clips that had been sent to him of what was going on in the capital of Mali, Bamako. They were video footage of two incidents, that can only be described as a public lynching of a transgender woman and a young gay man. My friend sent me the clips…

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A Different Perspective on Masculinity January 22, 2018 – Posted in: Holistic Well-Being

All men have their own journey when it comes to figuring out what masculinity is, embracing it and interpreting it for themselves as an identity. It is an even more thorny salient issue when it comes to men and homosexuality. Many in exploring their sexuality may have questioned the validity of their masculinity and may have found their own ways of coming to terms with it.  I find this TED talk a great stimulator for… Continue reading

Our Sisters are Dying. What Are We Going to Do About it? January 15, 2018 – Posted in: Collective Well-Being

In 2017 over 28 transgender people were murdered in the US, according to the Human Rights Campaign Report. A disproportionate number of these were transgender women of colour. The report argues that their unique intersection of racism, sexism, homophobia and transphobia conspire to deprive them of employment, housing, healthcare and other necessities, barriers that make them especially vulnerable. In 2016 there were 23 deaths. How do we turn the rising tide? A lot of progress has… Continue reading