The Man The Shadow of The brand July 23, 2019 – Posted in: Brand and Product Updates

How does it come to be that a total top is the head and heart of a brand whose  beginnings totally focuses on the total needs of total bottoms? The answer is in the totality of his nature whose silhouette is articulated by the total bottoms with whom he articulates his total topness.   Here is a man with hard wiring such that his life’s endeavour is to find ways throughout the sex-life-cycle in which his…

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Gender Multiplicity July 2, 2019 – Posted in: Collective Well-Being

In intimate conversation with my lovers, I have always contended that those that I am sexually attracted to are a completely separate and unique gender existing outside the widely accepted binary concept of gender. They are men who are wholly masculine however they are hard-wired to be wholly sexually receptive in a similar way to heterosexual women. My believe is that is but one of the multitude of variations perfectly natural in nature. My lovers…

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Unhealthy Love – Learn the Signs May 26, 2019 – Posted in: Relationship Well-Being

  Integral to your Sexual Well-being is the health of your intimate relationships. Sometimes the sex feels like it is thriving but everything else about the relationship feels wrong. Sometimes the sex does not thrive specifically because the rest of the relationship is wrong. In a talk about understanding and practicing the art of healthy relationships, Katie Hood reveals the five signs you might be in an unhealthy relationship — with a romantic partner, a…

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CLEAN Confidence GO NOW – Jonathan May 16, 2019 – Posted in: Customer Testimonials

Meet the Challenge I use Clean Confidence bowel support regularly and I’ve always found it really effective, but my new partner is more of a ‘challenge’ to take and I use Go Now as a way to make sure that I am always confident in the bedroom. I don’t need to use it all the time but when I know I need a little something extra, the combination works a treat!

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A ConfidentU Truth – Always On Your Side III February 19, 2019 – Posted in: Brand and Product Updates

What Do You Do To Get ConfidentU? What do you do when your Original Self rests on your Confidence as a Powerful Compassionate Masculine Man? What do you do when your Sexual Self rests on your Confidence as 100% Homosexual and 100% Top? What do you do when your Sexual Expression rests on your Confidence as 100% Dominant and 100% Compassion? What do you do when your Sexual Thriving rests on your Confidence of a…

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A Valentine Other Truth – Always on Your Side I February 14, 2019 – Posted in: Sexual Well-Being

  We find ourselves at Valentine’s Day, the Day of Love. In the stead of cut out clichés, we at ConfidentU decided speak Truth to Power, to speak truth to find power. The truth is that true love is not a bed of roses. It is hard, it is arduous, most of the time we do not know what we are doing and more often than we would like it ends in ways we do…

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Magic and The Four Buckets January 7, 2019 – Posted in: Sexual Well-Being

When it comes to assessing individuals and their worthiness in your life, always try to achieve a level of complete intimacy. To help you I have developed a very simple but effective tool: Firstly Know your own magic & worth Make a fair assessment, then put the individual in question into one of the following buckets: Bucket 1 Those who do not see your magic, do not see your magic. There were never meant to anyway…

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Sex Without the Thin Veil of Hostility January 1, 2019 – Posted in: Sexual Well-Being

In a discussion about navigating the challenges of finding sexual satisfaction through the popular hook-up mobile apps, a friend poignantly asked whether I thought it was possible to have no-strings-attached casual sex, which does not come a thin veil of hostility? They believed that the person involved always ends up feeling angry towards the individual. Even though they may have started the hunt for sex with a particular type of guy, with certain activities in…

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5 Reasons Why a CLEAN Bottom is a Top Concern December 24, 2018 – Posted in: How To Top Well

  This particular post was inspired by two incidents that really bothered me. They made me realised that what I had to say on this matter should be said. Incident 1 I went to dinner with a friend I had known for more than 15 years and his partner. In the course of the evening the conversation made its way to my brand ConfidentU and the work we do here. My friend’s partner was the…

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CLEAN Confidence Enema Shower Wand Sets December 21, 2018 – Posted in: Brand and Product Updates

  CLEAN Confidence Enema Shower Wand Sets with optional attachments are excellent Personal Cleansing Kits to effectively evacuate one’s bowels as preparation for intercourse and intimacy. They can also be part and parcel of the fun with those who are creative. Furthermore, they promote general health and well-being, offering relief from bloating, constipation and hemorrhoids. We are pleased to include these as part of the CLEAN Confidence range of products from ConfidentU.   Bowel Cleanliness…

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