Another Reason Why a CLEAN Bottom is a Top Concern January 21, 2019 – Posted in: How To Top Well

In the language of the Ga people from Ghana, the noun for ‘Love’ doe not exist. If you want to say ‘I love you’, you would say ‘Iñ Smor O Sané’. Translated word for word it says, ‘I like your concerns’. It is short-hand for saying ‘What Concerns you, concerns me. Your burdens are my burdens. I am at your side always to help you bear the load’. So tops, if you love bottoms and love…

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Magic and The Four Buckets January 7, 2019 – Posted in: Sexual Well-Being

When it comes to assessing individuals and their worthiness in your life, always try to achieve a level of complete intimacy. To help you I have developed a very simple but effective tool: Firstly Know your own magic & worth Make a fair assessment, then put the individual in question into one of the following buckets: Bucket 1 Those who do not see your magic, do not see your magic. There were never meant to anyway…

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Sex Without the Thin Veil of Hostility January 1, 2019 – Posted in: Sexual Well-Being

In a discussion about navigating the challenges of finding sexual satisfaction through the popular hook-up mobile apps, a friend poignantly asked whether I thought it was possible to have no-strings-attached casual sex, which does not come a thin veil of hostility? They believed that the person involved always ends up feeling angry towards the individual. Even though they may have started the hunt for sex with a particular type of guy, with certain activities in…

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5 Reasons Why a CLEAN Bottom is a Top Concern December 24, 2018 – Posted in: How To Top Well

  This particular post was inspired by two incidents that really bothered me. They made me realised that what I had to say on this matter should be said. Incident 1 I went to dinner with a friend I had known for more than 15 years and his partner. In the course of the evening the conversation made its way to my brand ConfidentU and the work we do here. My friend’s partner was the…

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CLEAN Confidence Enema Shower Wand Sets December 21, 2018 – Posted in: Brand and Product Updates

  CLEAN Confidence Enema Shower Wand Sets with optional attachments are excellent Personal Cleansing Kits to effectively evacuate one’s bowels as preparation for intercourse and intimacy. They can also be part and parcel of the fun with those who are creative. Furthermore, they promote general health and well-being, offering relief from bloating, constipation and hemorrhoids. We are pleased to include these as part of the CLEAN Confidence range of products from ConfidentU.   Bowel Cleanliness…

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CLEAN Confidence Enema Bulbs December 17, 2018 – Posted in: Brand and Product Updates

  CLEAN Confidence Enema Bulbs are excellent personal cleansing kits, which can be used to effectively evacuate one’s bowels as preparation for intercourse and intimacy. They also promote general health and well-being, offering relief from bloating, constipation and hemorrhoids. They are part of the CLEAN Confidence Range of products from ConfidentU.   Bowel Cleanliness & Hygiene The CLEAN Confidence Bulb offers ease and convenience in evacuating and cleansing one’s bowels. Simply remove the nozzle and…

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CLEAN Confidence GO BALM – A Dom Top Makes Amends December 14, 2018 – Posted in: How To Top Well

So you know how we say in our about us page that all of our products rise from a real need to solve a real problem. CLEAN Confidence GO BALM is no exception to this rule. To that effect, the narrative about the inception of this particular product goes as follows: I am a total top, very much attracted to total bottoms. I have what I describe as a ‘Passion for Penetration’. When the chemistry…

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CLEAN Confidence GO BALM December 10, 2018 – Posted in: Brand and Product Updates

  CLEAN Confidence GO BALM is an excellent occasional bowel cleansing suppository, designed to offer ease and convenience to evacuate and cleanse one’s bowels in less than 15 minutes, with ingredients whose strong properties promote healing in the lower rectal region. It can be part of the cleansing and healing process after intimacy. It also promotes general health and well-being, offering relief from bloating, constipation and hemorrhoids. It is part of the CLEAN Confidence GO…

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CLEAN Confidence GO AFTER – Taking Loads and The Aftermath December 7, 2018 – Posted in: How To Bottom Well

Now if you check out our about us page, one of the things we make clear is that the products we develop are our authentic attempts to find holistic solutions to real problems individuals face, in their efforts to manifest the kind of sex that allows them to truly thrive. Our products are often the result of candid conversations about the challenges of intimacy in an open, safe and non-judgemental space. The story of how…

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